I said earlier that my friend Lloyd was married to a Lao girl. I need to rephrase this: he is married to a Lao woman, not a girl. Her name is Lana and she’s roughly my age. Lloyd is quite a few years younger than both of us. I tried to assess if this was unusual for Laos, and it is a bit. As in Thailand, there is a fair share of foreign older men here marrying local young women.

But despite strict laws surrounding sex and marriage, the actual culture seems pretty practical and down to earth. Read more »

If you’ve not heard of Pattaya, here it is in short: this small town in the South of Thailand is where you’ll find the Thai sex industry at its seediest. I only visited during the day, and it all seemed fairly tame, so I’m only reporting second hand info here.  But apparently, Phuket’s gogo bars are a family-friendly when compared to Pattaya’s. Read more »

Last night, I followed Lana and her girlfriend Tani to what sounded like a major cultural adventure: a Lao rock concert.

The venue was a massive entertainment complex in the middle of nowhere, a twenty minute drive from Vientiane, the capital. It all seemed like a prime opportunity to meet some Lao youngsters.  And indeed, young Lao men were aplenty. Read more »

Lloyd’s wife Lana is a very sexy, relaxed and fun-loving woman, as I am quickly finding out. A few girls’ nights out, such as the “tricky Tones night”, provided enough opportunities to assess this. I really like her. I was therefore delighted when she produced a young brother a couple of nights ago. His name is Phet and he hardly speaks any English, but he’s a doll – so who cares? Read more »

Well, Houston we’ve got a problem. I’m still in Thailand, and despite the hordes of painfully beautiful young men everywhere, I have not yet found one that I felt like bedding. I have thus resolved – for the moment – to enjoy the eye candy rather than pressure myself into more sex than I feel like (sensible me!). Read more »

The other day, I caught a few minutes of a radio program about women’s sex holidays, which may or may not have been Woman’s Hour on BBC Radio in the UK. Anyhow, the gist seemed to be that what used to be a fairly secret affair is now a fast growing industry, all part of our day and age of female empowerment. Read more »

I have been a cougar for ever. I like to think of myself as the Cougar Queen, although it’s not like I only ever hunt for cubs. To me, being a cougar is about the balance of powers being in my favour, and I’m open-minded. If a mature man looks like he might be up to the job, he gets a chance. Read more »

Yesterday, I had my fourth date with Eduardo. As per usual, the boy could not help but be a model of perfection. This time, he went through a lot of trouble cooking a typical Brazilian meal for me.

It is a bit of a cliché, but there is something very sexy about a man in the kitchen. And he doesn’t even need to be naked under his apron. Read more »

And it’s not just that it’s cool and sexy, although admittedly, it is. Personal experience aside, the whole younger men/older women thing makes a lot of sense. A whole lot more sense than the more classic “older men with younger women” scenario. No really. Read more »

Happy Birthday to us! We turned 1 on October 10, and what a year it’s been. I’d like to say a special thanks to Sean, the very first member who joined on October 11 ‘07. Little did he know but he was joining a dating site with zero members. Needless to say he never logged on again. Read more »