It’s time again for our regular Q & A with cougar dating expert Lucia. Here she handles some tricky relationship dilemmas, covering workplace encounters, date conversation topics and the sexual differences between older and younger women.

Mandy M. writes: I’ve been with my man now for about 6 months, he’s 27 and I’m exactly 20 years older. We met at work and things are going great between us apart from one thing - he won’t tell our co-workers about our relationship. He tells me that it’s because our boss might think it was unprofessional that we are dating, but I think he’s ashamed about our age difference and what his buddies at work will say. Shall I just tell everyone at work or agree to keep it quiet? (more…)

Lucia: dating expert

Relationships expert Lucia is on hand to answer your cougar dating questions. If you have a dating dilemma or a romance riddle and you need some straight talking advice, send your questions to asklucia@cougared.com and we will do our best to feature your question right here on the cougared.com blog.

To kick us off, here is the first Q & A with Lucia.

Susan F. writes: I had some professional photos taken and I look great in them - in fact much more glamorous and sexy than I do in real life. I really want to use them on my internet dating profile but I’m worried that when I meet a younger guy in real life he’ll be disappointed that I’m not such a sexy older woman after all. Maybe I should put more regular picture on there instead? Please help! (more…)