Our very own age gap relationship advisor Lucia is hosting a unique speed dating event open to men aged 21-35 and women of 38-50.

Even if you’ve never tried speed dating, you probably know someone who has, or you’ve seen it given the Hollywood treatment on The 40 Year Old Virgin, Hitch and Sex and the City.

If you’re a guy who loves the charm and sophistication of sexy older women, or you’re a fabulous woman who prefers the vitality of younger men, then this is your chance to take it to the next level.

Places are limited, so you’d better hurry to apply if you fancy taking part. Details as follows:

WHEN: Wednesday, February 11, 2009
WHERE: Club Sushi, 6374 W Sunset Blvd, Hollywood, Ca
PRICE: $39
RSVP: www.cougarspeeddate.com

Lucia: dating expert

Relationships expert Lucia is on hand to answer your cougar dating questions. If you have a dating dilemma or a romance riddle and you need some straight talking advice, send your questions to asklucia@cougared.com and we will do our best to feature your question right here on the cougared.com blog.

To kick us off, here is the first Q & A with Lucia.

Susan F. writes: I had some professional photos taken and I look great in them - in fact much more glamorous and sexy than I do in real life. I really want to use them on my internet dating profile but I’m worried that when I meet a younger guy in real life he’ll be disappointed that I’m not such a sexy older woman after all. Maybe I should put more regular picture on there instead? Please help! (more…)